My roommate was asking me the other day if I hate how easy girls are to get. I asked him what he meant and he said that all you have to do is know how to say the right things and they don't have a chance. I then proceeded the look at him blankly. Then he said "girls are so dumb." He is a 24 year old toddler. He complains that girls are either easy or just play hard-to-get. (my roommate has never had a girlfriend) It really annoys me when people are sexist in a real way. What I mean by "real" is, they actually think they are smarter then the opposite gender.
I think fake sexism, ect is hilarious in some instances. But never if it is remotely serious. Like when a girl posts a picture of herself on a beach and you say, "wow, thats a fancy kitchen." I approve of that comedy gold haha.
My roommate talked about either playing the brooding quiet guy which he labeled me as that, or the charismatic, funny, douche type guy. He said that's all you have to do and girls fall for you. I said "au contraire", my opinion is that if you genuinely are or if you play "the quiet guy", girls are falling in love with the idea of you, I mean if your so quiet how do they know who you are? They might assume you're deep and mysterious but maybe you just never know what to say. Or the other type, the louder, confident one, they fall in love with who you could be, if you focused just an ounce of what you do on yourself on her, then you would be a great guy to be with. Plus confidence and security sometimes go hand in hand.
Marriage was originally made so you can have a partner that can help you out. At the end of they day, no matter how bad or stressful it was, you'll always have that support. Someone to laugh about how crappy things are or when things are good, to enjoy the beautiful little things in life. Do you think Eve played hard to get? Fate and Destiny aren't real, unless your counting some strippers in vegas, even then, that's not their real name. Movies, songs and books have corrupted us so much and it's skewed our view of love. G** D*** you Nicholas Sparks, G** D*** you to H***. (hahaha i crack myself up.)
To me the bottom line is friendship, thats who you want to be married to. I hate that I'm shallow like most people, I really do. But on the other hand, maybe the ugliest girl is the nicest girl because she is the ugliest girl. If that same girl was born retardly (and by retardly I mean extremely. "well why didn't you just say extremely, cody?" I don't know, maybe I wanted to make sure that if I said it outloud in front of you someday you wouldn't mis understand what I was trying to say.) retardly beautiful, she would have been treated differently and been shaped into a different person.
Until the new system even the best of us will be shallow to a certain degree. Which isn't a big deal, because you literally have forever to pick a partner that will compliment you. You can make almost any relationship work if you try really hard. It's like trying to use a fork to eat ice-cream, yeah sure it works and it still tastes good, (you disgust me, get your mind out of the freaking gutter.) but a spoon would be better. And to that I close with the words I currently live my life by... There is no spoon.
Well said
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